Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Take Back Your Career


This was the expression on my face the last time I got laid off!  I was angry and frustrated.  Angry because I got laid off over the phone.  Frustrated because I knew this call had been coming for a very long time.


This was the moment I knew I had to take back my career.  I decided not to leave my future in the hands of others.  I'd been coasting for years-telecommuting from my home.  Hiding in my basement office.  I've been miserable for years, but I didn't have the courage to do anything about it.  I made myself a promise that day that I would take back control of my life and career and make things happen.  


What I discovered in this process is that my main job is to "show up" every day.  By that I mean I commit daily to moving toward my goals.  Completing actions plans that keep me focused and driven to achieving success.


So, here I am today....President of my own successful personal branding company:  High Gain Companies, Inc.  I also wrote and recently published a book "Take Back Your Career" which is available on Amazon.com. 


My next goal is to host a national TV show dedicated to helping others take back their personal power.  I'm on a roll and nothing can stop me! 

Friday, July 22, 2011

Feed Your Spirit!




Our spirit is like a plant….we need to water and feed it regularly. Why? Your spirit takes a real beating during a job search or career transition. We call on our spirit regularly to keep us strong and optimistic. We use our will power and spirit to help us weather the daunting work of being at our best during the search process. However, our spirit can run out of stream. You’ll know your need to feed your spirit when you lose your sense of joy, your sense of humor and your sense of adventure. You need all three to win the career game searching for a new job is a big adventure which can give you great joy. You also need a sense of humor so that you don’t become grim, boring and unimaginative.

There will be times when you want to give up and bury yourself under the covers. Hiding is one option however replenishing your spirit and persisting in your job search is a far better option. We need you in the marketplace. We need your talent and ideas and energy and spirit!

Make a list today of ten ways you can feed your spirit so you’ll have it ready when you need it. Here’s my list and I don’t care if you steal the ideas…sharing is good:

1. Spend an hour in nature just listening.

2. Go to an art museum

3. Meditate

4. Eat ice cream

5. Take a walk

6. Read your favorite book

7. Sing or whistle

8. Look at your favorite photos

9. Play with your pet

Day drea

Feed Your Spirit!



Our spirit is like a plant….we need to water and feed it regularly. Why? Your spirit takes a real beating during a job search or career transition. We call on our spirit regularly to keep us strong and optimistic. We use our will power and spirit to help us weather the daunting work of being at our best during the search process. However, our spirit can run out of stream. You’ll know your need to feed your spirit when you lose your sense of joy, your sense of humor and your sense of adventure. You need all three to win the career game searching for a new job is a big adventure which can give you great joy. You also need a sense of humor so that you don’t become grim, boring and unimaginative.

There will be times when you want to give up and bury yourself under the covers. Hiding is one option however replenishing your spirit and persisting in your job search is a far better option. We need you in the marketplace. We need your talent and ideas and energy and spirit!

Make a list today of ten ways you can feed your spirit so you’ll have it ready when you need it. Here’s my list and I don’t care if you steal the ideas…sharing is good:

1. Spend an hour in nature just listening.

2. Go to an art museum

3. Meditate

4. Eat ice cream

5. Take a walk

6. Read your favorite book

7. Sing or whistle

8. Look at your favorite photos

9. Play with your pet

Day drea

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Game Momentum Changers-Your Job Search


You've applied to twenty companies and got no response. Or, you've gotten the interview, but didn't make the first cut. Or, you secured a phone interview and the call didn't go well. So, now you sit and fume about "if you didn't have bad luck, you wouldn't have any luck!" Your frustration level is off the charts and your confidence is badly shaken....and this is just the first month of your job search!
This calls for a game momentum changer - some event which will change the momentum of your job search in your favor. An action that will help you regain your perspective. It can be a huge victory like acing an interview or some small and significant win like creating a fresh, new cover letter. Here are a few other momentum changers:
  • Volunteer an hour of your time...you will contribute to others and feel good about yourself
  • Complete a project you've been meaning to finish and feel like you're accomplished something.
  • Help another job seeker who's asked for your help-helping others is a great momentum changer
  • Write down the five accomplishments you're proudest of...read them out loud. Notice how your pride of accomplishments builds
  • Write a hand-written note to a colleague just to touch base.
  • Call a friend and meet for coffee - talk about how well your search is going even if it isn't..."act as if"
You can change your job search momentum by positive actions and thoughts. Try some if out this week and let me know how well they worked for you!

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Take Back Your Career-How To Play Today's Career Game




In May of 1990, I was laid off for the first time. That was my introduction to the world of career transition—a world I have experienced three times since then. I wish I could say that with each merger or downsizing it got easier . . . but it didn’t. What I can say is that each time was different. Each time, I learned something new about myself—and the process of job hunting and career management. And each time, I kept saying, “There has to be a better way.”

For the past five years I’ve been on a mission to discover a better process for managing my career. I decided that one way to learn what was needed to devise a better process was to volunteer at the local community career center. I’ve also been a senior advisor and consultant to major outplacement firms. I’ve coached over fifteen hundred people who were searching for new jobs. I’ve learned so much from all of them, but one client in particular has always stuck with me.

Tim was a COO who told me that he wanted to “get back in the game.” He was tired of being on the bench. He said the longer he was out of the game, the more the game changed and he wasn’t in the thick of it. I didn’t understand what he meant until he explained that, for him, work and career were THE ultimate competition sport. He saw it as a competitive game where you had to stay in shape, continuously work your game plans, scout out the competition, know the field of play, and, above all, craft your winning plays.

Tim was so right in his sports analogy of career management. Once I started looking at the process from a competitive, contact sports angle it became obvious that the disciplines needed for sports are also necessary when managing your career. When you start to understand this concept, you see that you want to be able to lead and play on a team, remain marketable in a competitive environment, and develop and execute game-winning plays.

So, what happens when you look at career management as THE ultimate contact sport? First, you declare that you want to get into the game and win! Then you want to know the following:

  • How the game has changed
  • What the playing field looks like
  • The rules
  • How to form your winning team
  • What uniforms and tools you’ll be using
  • How to get into peak shape
  • What plays you’ll run
  • How to keep up a winning streak

I’m writing this book to give you a better understanding of the new career management game. Because here’s the thing: Everything about this contact sport has changed in the last few years. There are new rules, new playing fields, new team members, new competition. I’ve always believed that learning a new sport from an expert is crucial; for this game, I’ll be your coach. This book is your playbook. It will supply you with the necessary information, exercises, and examples to guide you in creating your personalized career management game plan. You’re closer to a breakthrough career than you think.

Ready? Game on!


Saturday, March 26, 2011

New Book - "Take Back Your Career"


"Take Back Your Career" - Available Soon

Today's career game is very different than it was five years ago. The rules, playing field, scrimmages and winning plays have changed dramatically. Social networking, life-long networking and personal branding are now essentials.

As companies continue to change to meet the demands of a global marketplace, we are all being affected. You may find yourself in a job search or you may be stuck in a job you hate. Either way, "Take Back Your Career" shows you how to position yourself for career success. You'll learn how to develop and implement a game-winning plan. You'll read about the real-life experiences of others who have become star players and continue their winning streaks. You'll also learn how to develop and implement a dynamic career plan enabling you to "Take Back Your Career"!

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Confidence - A Tricky Trait

Pam is a Human Resource professional who specializes in labor relations and performance management. She is in a career transition that has lasted ten months. The job market has been very tight and although she's had lots of interviews, Pam still doesn't have an offer. For some people this situation can be a real confidence killer; not Pam. She is always confident, professional, and ready to tackle whatever comes her way. I asked her how she keeps her confidence up. She replied there are three things that help her through the rough times:

  1. Use positive affirmations/self-talk. When Pam starts to hear those negative messages in her head, she stops them immediately. She reminds herself of her self worth and personal power.
  2. Volunteer to help others. She has daily contact with others. Pam explained that helping others takes her "out of my self pity" and she feels like she accomplishes something through her volunteer work.
  3. Reviews accomplishments - identify the situation, take action, and most importantly remember the results achieved. This exercise reminds her of her unique skills and successes.
So, what's your confidence level? It may be time to claim your confidence. Remind yourself you are successful and significant!