"So, tell me....."

“Tell me something I don’t know”

This is a command MSNBC’s commentator Chris Matthews gives to his Sunday morning guests each week. I like it because the information coming back is not the usual spiel you hear from reporters everyday. It could be something under-reported i.e. President Obama’s phone call to Mark Buerhle after his perfect game.

This same technique can be used when you’re interviewing. The interviewer may know lots of information about you from your resume, handbill, LinkedIn, etc., but think about a piece of information, an accomplishment, an article you just read, an experience you’ve had that would inform the interviewer and help set you apart from other candidates.

So, “Tell me something I don’t know!”

Showing Up Everyday

I wish I'd gotten the email about "showing up everyday" years ago. As it was, I got it from a great manager who saw right through my daily BS. She took me aside and explained that work and life in general would be much happier for me and all around me if I'd show up everyday. What she was talking about was attitude, body language, voice tone, and a giving heart. I was one of those people who made sure everyone had a bad day if mine started out that way. My body language and tone of voice dared somebody to cross me...just once. Sometimes it was boyfriend problems, too much partying the before or just a nasty mood. However, I was a customer serice rep so feedback from customers and co-workers weren't glowing. So, I got fired. Looking back at this period of my career, I understand now that this was one of the best learning experiences of my career. I learned the world doesn't revolve around me and my problems and one but my dog wants to hear about them.

Topics in The High Gain Zone

Ok, I'm stepping up to the plate with some very compelling posts in the next 10 weeks. These topics are timely in today's market with must-know observations and practical trail tips:

1. "Showing Up Everyday"
2. "Tell Me Something I Don't Know"
3. "The Breakthrough"
4. "What Makes You Unique?"
5. "New Job Search Tools"
6. "Meditating and Your Job Search"
7. "Keeping Your Sanity During the Job Search"
8. "Take the Chaos Out of Your Career"
9. "What Your Dog Knows About Career Success"
10. "Redefine Yourself"

Thanks, Chuck!

I want to take this opportunity to thank my brother Chuck for reminding me that he’s following my blog and there haven’t been any updates lately. You’re right, Chuck. I’ve been lazy and put off writing…..I have to practice what I preach and change my procrastinating ways.

So, here’s what I’m going to do:

1. Make a list of 10 topics and list them on the blog by the end of next week.
2. Write at least 2 paragraphs on each topic and throw in some little known facts to keep it interesting – I can make them up if I want cuz it’s my blog.
3. Put due dates on my calendar and meet those dates.
4. Thank the Universe daily for my brother who keeps me focused and honest.